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Rebecca Thorman

Rebecca Thorman

Rebecca Thorman is a millennial living in Madison, Wisconsin. Rebecca is the Executive Director of a young professional organization whose mission is to attract and retain young talent and leadership in order to contribute to the regions' economic, civic, social, and public policy futures. She is from Champaign-Urbana, Illinois and is a recent graduate of the University of Wisconsin – Madison.

Rebecca aspires with her generation to be an entrepreneur and in her spare time she works obsessively on her blog, Modite. On her blog, she gives advice to navigate beyond the line of work and play, based on real experiences. It's engagement for the next generation. Read more at modite.com/blog.

Women are the New Men

I know a lot of awesome Gen X and Gen Y women. In fact, the city of Madison, WI ranks in the top ten of both female creative class, and female super-creative class percentages in the nation (Charlottesville, VA and Bakersville, CA, rank first).

Generation Y women, Hannah Seligson argues, are "making one of the fastest and unprecedented career ladder ascents in history." Here are some observations about one of the most powerful groups of women in history:

Women are more business-minded than men… Springboard Enterprises reports that "women in the United States have an ownership stake of 50 percent or more in nearly half of all privately held businesses." In fact, women are starting businesses at a rate of twice that of men, attracted to the flexible lifestyle of being your own boss.

And we're successful at it. The gross sales of women-led companies grew 39 percent compared to 34 percent for all firms. Barron's predicts that by 2010 a woman has a one in seven chance of having a powerful job post. In Australia, studies show that "women-led companies on average outperform those where there is no female leadership at the top," while "law firms with more female partners have a higher per partner income than those with fewer."

… but women don't always want a man, or children. While men in leadership positions often have a family to support them, Gen X and Gen Y women put careers ahead of settling down. While this can be a lonely proposition, many Gen X and Gen Y women are not in a huge rush to find a man, get married and start popping out children.

In relationships, the men increasingly stay at home or hold a less stressful position. If we're even in a relationship. Many of us are doing just fine without a man as a result of our highly independent lifestyle.

A lot of us aren't even sure we want to have kids. And if we do, we want to adopt (anything to avoid having a foreign object pop out of our fitness-club bodies). The vast majority of women that do plan on having kids also plan on staying in the workforce.

Women are natural leaders. The millennial woman brand of leadership is more about changing the world than our own egos. Moreover, we're change makers willing to defy the traditional structures of "command and control" leadership for a more collaborative and inclusive model.

Anna Quindlen writes, "by its very nature women's leadership is about redefinition, while men's leadership has been about maintaining the status quo… You're less wedded to the shape of the table if you haven't been permitted to sit at it."

I'm not surprised to learn that women and men are switching roles. I see examples all around me of women embracing the power of now to lead the next generation. The more young women that get others to not only look past their age, but also any perceived inequities, the better off our world will be.

One last note. Over in the UK, academics have dubbed young women leaders as "'the Monstrous Army on the March', women who cannot, will not be stopped."

Well then. March on ladies.

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Posted by Anonymous 5:56am , June 13, 2010

Last I checked men were much more successful at business. What are you talking about girl? Sure, we women do great things. But many of us choose to leave business and have a family? That is how we are wired. Do you have kids?? I didn't think so! Someday you will regret that. Without kids, your heart will be empty and all of your money and awards will mean nothing. I really feel sorry for you. Debbie

Posted by Debbie 3:19am , January 23, 2009

I really like Anna Quindlan's quote and hope that as professional leaders women can continue to redefine what it means to be a "leader". I'm the mother of three young children who is fortunate to have a job that allows me to work out of my home. Of course, I work for a woman who is not only spectacularly successful at what she does but also recognizes that being a good mother doesn't mean you're a bad worker. I hope more women in leadership positions will continue changing the shape of the table so that we won't feel pulled to sacrifice one dream (professional success) for another (family). Men haven't had to make that choice because they have traditionally had the support of their wives and society. We deserve the same but need to recognize that we may need to provide that support for each other instead of criticizing the choices our sisters have made.

Posted by Anonymous 7:06am , September 18, 2007

Women in America are trying to prove their manhood. Instead of trying to force themselves into positions of corporate "power" (whatever that means), it would be more beneficial to both women and men if American women would at least partially fullfill their natural roles of mothers and wives. Men gain esteem from power and knowing that their wife is dedicated to them. Women gain esteem by caring for their children and their man. Yin. Yang. You cannot fool nature.

American women have been conditioned in the last 30 years to believe that sitting in some corporate office typing all day (as I do) is somehow more liberating and enjoyable than being a Mom. God gave women that ability to create life, surely the most incredible gift ever - but American women spend more time learning about birth control than they do about breast feeding. That's some pretty screwed up priorities if you ask me. Similarly, men have been conditioned to avoid marriage and family, leaving a generation of American women single and lonely and trying to grasp some sort of fulfillment out of their "career" (whatever that means).

I often blog issues of masculinity and femininity at www.thestateof.com. I blog mostly black social issues.

Posted by Big J 6:03pm , September 17, 2007

YES! We are. The new men, I mean. :) Although, it begs the question - do we want to be the new them (because that means we are trying to fill their shoes when, in fact, as you noted, we have our own unique talents to complement and, in some cases, displace theirs)?

Posted by Anonymous 10:39am , August 2, 2007

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